Grampa believed there was a reason we were each given TWO ears and only ONE mouth.
Grampa was a great listener.
I remember once I asked him for some advice.
He listened, asked questions and listened some more.
Somehow, through the listening and the questions,
I found the answer.  And Grampa smiled.

* pic from: http://whatjesusdid.org/383/hand-to-ear-listening/